Making a Move

Perfectly Unperfect is Moving!!!

This post is going to be short and sweet, but it's very important!! As you can scroll through my archives, you can see that I've been posting blogs since October, and it has been a great experience starting out my blog here at blogspot, but as I gained more and more readers, and more and more confidence, I think it's time for a little upgrade! I'm moving and updating my blog to WordPress. I have found I enjoy reading blogs a lot more through WordPress. There is just a certain professionalism about them, and that's something I'm looking for. Despite some of my silly posts, I do take my blogging very seriously, and I want to expand and grow as a writer. 

I have a lot more time over the summer to do just that, and WordPress is the way for me to do it. I will be posting shorter posts, but more often. I'll bring in some new ideas, and I hope that you will leave me feedback. Again, thanks so much for sticking with me through my journey as a new blogger, and I hope you'll transition with me to bigger and better things!

OK, so moral of the story is, go read my new blog posts at meganlouann.wordpress.com ! The only "post" there currently is my about page, but go check that out, and follow my blog to get updates when new posts are up! 

Again, thanks so much for reading, and I look forward to sharing much more with you!

Stay classy,

Megan LouAnn

P.S. : I'm slightly sentimental leaving blogspot because 1) I'm a girl, I get emotional for silly reasons and 2) I really have grown as a person through blogging on this site, so it's a little sad okkkkkkay. :( (Also I will leave this site up and running, so you can still access some of my older posts if you'd like)

Not Even a Blink

A Wrap on My Freshman Year of College

I DIDN'T EVEN BLINK. This past school year has hands down been the fastest year of my life. If every year of college is like this, I'm going to have a degree in no time! People alwayssssss said that college is the fastest four years of your life, but holy crap. They really weren't kidding. I didn't even realize how quickly it had all gone by until I finished my last final last Thursday. It hit me like a ton of bricks. My first year in college was... over. Just like that. Where did the time go? Did I get anything accomplished? Did anything change? Turns out A LOT changed in what felt like such a short amount of time. So much changed that I actually have difficulties remembering life before college. It's shocking really, but I'm so proud of the strides I made this year to become the person I am today. I've decided to compile a list of things I've learned since I started college just 9 months ago. Just finished your freshman year of college? I'm sure you can relate.

10 Things I've learned in my freshman year of college.

1. It's okay to eat by yourself.

2. There's never an inappropriate time for pizza. Or any food for that matter.

3. That being said, the freshman 15 is a real thing, so you've got to work off that pizza.

4. It's a lot harder to make friends, but the ones you do make, will be some of the best friends you've ever had.

5. Not everybody is Christian. (Clearly, I knew this beforehand, but I really felt its impact this year).

6. People are different. Like really really different.

7. Professors (the good ones anyways) really care about you and can be some of the best mentors and super influential if you allow them to be. 

8. Going away is really awesome, but you can still "be on your own" while living at home.

9. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING is like high school. At all.

10. College is absolutely the best time to really discover yourself, and I plan on taking full advantage of that for the next three years. 

Overall, I've had an amazing year at NKU, and I'm really happy with my choice to go there despite some curve balls that were thrown my way. I've met so many awesome people, friends and professors, (and some professors who are now friends!) and I can't wait for the next three years in this phase of my life. There's nothing else quite like it. To incoming freshman (especially soon to be Norse), get ready for one of the best and most life-changing years of your life. You honestly have NO idea what you're in for, but I'm willing to bet, this time next year, you'll be saying some of the same exact stuff I'm saying right now. :)

Here's to the end of a great school year and the beginning of a great summer!

Stay classy,

Megan LouAnn

Actions Speak Louder than Words

Consider this statement: actions speak louder than words. I'm sure it's one you've heard many times in the past, and we can all understand its basic meaning - what you do is more important than what you say. However, words are noticed way more than actions. When someone blatantly tells us something, we have a better chance of remembering it than if they did something that could potentially convey the same meaning. We are able to make connections with words and give ourselves explanations based on those words, but often times, we aren't even considering actions. Why does this matter? Ask yourself how many times you've pushed someone away, be it a friend, significant other, family member, whoever, because you felt like they didn't care as much as you did. Maybe they rarely spoke about how much you meant to them, how much they cared, or how much they valued you. This made you question if any of the relationship was real in the first place and then there you were, pushing yourself away. However, later, you found yourself thinking: 'Crap. They really did care. They did so much for me. They treated me with nothing but kindness. How could I not see that?' Here's how: you were too focused on the words they said or didn't say and less focused on the actions they took. It's toxic. It is the source of the saying: "You don't know what you've got until it's gone".  It's human nature to want to hear what other people are thinking. It's easier for our brains to process because hello - it's straight forward, right there, in plain English. But as easy as it might be for someone to tell you how much they care, it is just as easy for them to tell you lies. Almost always, the truth lies behind the action. It's clear as day how someone feels about you if you pay attention to how they truly treat you, but that's just it - you have to consciously be aware of what they're doing. I'm not saying you should completely disregard what people tell you, but couple it with how they treat you, and I promise, you'll have a clearer idea of what you mean to them. Don't let those countless acts of kindness go unnoticed, no matter how small, and remember that for you to fully show someone you care about them, take action. It's that simple.

That's all I have for this week. Thanks for reading, and feel free to leave a comment below. I appreciate all feedback. :)

Stay classy,
Megan LouAnn

Time

Time

OK I'm going to attempt to keep this post short and sweet this week, but you know how that always turns out... Anyways. Time. Weird concept if you think about it too much, but it might be one of if not the most important things we have while here on earth. It's been a long TIME since I've made a blog post, but that's just it. I've lost track of my time because I've been so busy and preoccupied with a billion other things. I forgot to just take a little extra TIME out of my day to sit down, and put some thought into words. But here I am world. Also speaking of time. It flies. Duh. But I mean it reallllllllly flies. I only have four weeks of school left, finals, and then my freshman year of college is complete. 

I mean seriously, what the heck. I don't even think I've blinked yet, and it's almost over. But looking back on it, so much has happened. I've changed a great deal and learned so many valuable lessons both in and outside of the classroom. But that shall be saved for another post possibly four or five weeks from now hint hint. That aside, the sad thing about time is that we often wish it away. Sure, maybe it's a part of human nature, but why do we do it. How many times do you find yourself thinking, "I wish we could just fast forward through this class." or "I wish we could just fast forward to next weekend." or sometimes even "I wish we could just fast forward to college." No, it's not a bad thing to look forward to something. That's great, but we shouldn't just piss away the time we have before that. Every second is precious no matter how bored or annoyed or stressed we are. It's all about "living in the present" per say. It's SO difficult, but it the best state of mind to be in. Reminiscing can be great too, but stay grounded and enjoy where you're at because that's all you really have.  

To further implement the beauty of time...

Same car. Same people.

That's all I have for this week's post! Thank you for reading and as always....

Stay classy,

Megan LouAnn

It's Ok

For those of you who belong to #BachelorNation, the title of this week's blog post might be immediately familiar as recent Bachelor, Juan Pablo's, new catch phrase. Even if you don't know who Juan Pablo or The Bachelor is, this post is still for you. Juan Pablo went down in history as the world's worst Bachelor, and I'm about to describe to you just why that is. Guys - take notes from Juan Pabs, and be sure to never ever follow them. Ladies - listen closely, and be sure to never ever date a Juan Pabs.

3 Reasons Juan Pablo was the worst Bachelor ever.

1. He made no sense. Ever. 

JP took the saying "talking in circles" to a whole new level. The man not only talked in circles, but zigzags, squares, rhombuses, you name it. He was all over the place, and he never made his points or ideas clear. One of the contestants on the show said, "I wish I was dumber." JP later blamed this on the language barrier, but the guy has been a citizen of the United States for 10+ years. It's not a language barrier but perhaps an intellectual one. The most unfortunate thing about this all is that he was able to talk his way out of any situation. The girls would become so confused, so they just let whatever he was trying to explain go. I don't know if it was the accent or his favorite way to end any conversation: "It's ok." that allowed him to bs his way through just about anything. 

2. He made zero attempts to get to know any of the women, but instead, he turned any conversation into one about himself.

Alright, so we all know that the Bachelor is really only a 6-week course of filming, so clearly, time is precious, and any smart man who truly cared about finding love, would spend as much time as he could to get to know the women that he could potentially propose to at the end of that fast-paced 6 weeks. However, this was not the case for Juan Pabs. Several of the women on the show explained that they never had the chance to talk about anything really meaningful, deep, or personal to JP because every time such a thing would come up, Juan was quick to change the subject.... to himself. Is Juan Pablo really that big of an egotistical asshole? Yes. It takes a lot for a woman to open herself up to another person, let alone the rest of America. So for him to immediately shoot her down, that's his loss because those are the women who could have turned out to be great wife/mother material. He was looking for a woman to just shut up and listen to him. Be in his shadow. Be a trophy wife. (I could go on and on about Nikki Ferrell and her stupid decision to stay with the guy, but that's too much ranting to fit into one post!)

3. Finally, he's rude. Period.

Where to begin with this one... Juan was rude on and off of the show. Even his family warned both of the final contestants that Juan can be "a lot to deal with" and "mean". Several of the girls left JP on their own because of how nasty he was. One girl said he told her that she "hardly made it this far." How is that supposed to make her feel? Like crap. Lucky for this girl, Andi, she became a fan favorite, and her strong willed personality landed her a spot as the new Bachelorette. However, Juan Pab's real personality came out during the live "After the Final Rose" show when he got pissed at the host, Chris Harrison, for apparently interrupting him. To get to the point, Juan simply thinks the world revolves around him, and unfortunately for him, that's definitely not the case. However, he will forever be notorious for the world's worst Bachelor.




Now, I suppose since I talked about all the reasons why JP was a horrid Bachelor, I guess I should mention just ONE reason why he could have made a good one.

1 Reason Juan Pablo COULD Have Been a Great Bachelor 

1. Just look at him.

That about wraps up this week's blog post. Remember: GUYS-don't be a Juan Pabs. GIRLS-don't date a Juan Pabs. Thanks for reading, and I'll see you all next week :)

Stay classy,
Megan LouAnn

Fabio

Staycation time!

Blehhfjdsakjfewia. That's a little insight into my wonderful mind these past 2 weeks. I really think this week was just as time consuming and annoying as finals week was before Christmas Break. It was the week before the midterm and spring break, and my goodness, I promise you E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G. was due all at once. More than one exam or midterm a day, everyday. And now that it's all over, I still have the lingering feeling that I should be doing something productive because something will be due soon! However, luckily, that's not that case, and I get to relax for 9 days. NINE DAYS. That is amazing. Although vacation plans didn't work out, I think it's almost for the best. I really need time to just breathe and give my mind a break. Not that I couldn't do that on a beach somewhere.... sighhhh. But this way, I'm not worrying about all the traveling and planning and what not. Not to mention I'm saving some extra mula which I have recently realized is kind of super important. Allow me to explain. 

Yet another realization that I'm growing up!

Boo. Although growing up is really exciting, it comes with so many new responsibilities, and as much as I want to just gather all my things and move out, it's not that easy. First of all, I've recently gotten a new car - bye bye Neon. Yay! Right? Well, yes, I loveeeee my new Ford Focus whom I designated as Fabio. Cute, huh? However, those car payments are a tough pill to swallow. I can't just go out and splurge on gifts for myself like I used to (a little more often than I'd like to admit). I have to SAVE my money now. Woh.... save money? What's up with that?! But if I ever want to be able to afford to really get out there on my own, that's exactly what I need to do.  It's all new to me, but it's nice knowing that I'm working toward a goal that is helping me to become a mature adult. I love my family, don't get me wrong, but I think I'm ready to take a few steps away, and paying for something like a CAR all on my own is a great feeling. It seems like just yesterday I was driving my little Barbie jeep around the neighborhood! :)

Snap snap

So in some of my earlier posts, I talked about my passion for photography. It's hands down one of my favorite art forms, and recently, I was able to attend a photography exhibit at school, and I LOVED it. The theme for all of the photographers' displays was "people" which happens to be my favorite kind of photography - portraits. It was really awesome to see different ideas the photographers came up with, and it pushed me to get back behind the lens of my very standard camera and take a few shots of my very beautiful sister, Madison. I'm hoping to get a newer and better camera for my birthday, and over the summer, I want to look into taking some photography classes. Here are a few of my favorite shots of Mady. I also did her hair and makeup for this shoot, and I think it's a fabulous look on her.  

Quaint little smile.

I think I told her to think of someone she dislikes. Oops. Death glare for sure. But a gorgeous one!

Eyes.

Stunning. That's pretty much all else I have to say on that one. I really need to invest in a better camera and venture away from just shooting Madison, but as stated in above section, I'm saving money, so it will just have to wait for now!

Until next time...

Stay classy,

Megan LouAnn :)

Being in Love and Being Lazy

Okay so I obviously wrote the following portion of this post a week ago on Valentine's Day, and I believe I passed out right after, soooooo one week later, here I am finishing this post! I've been busy!

Love is in the air…

Alright, let's get the obvious over with. It's Valentines's Day, and I bet some of you are expecting me to complain and whine about it because - hello I'm like super single. But no, I actually enjoy Valentine's Day. Sure, I'll make jokes, but honestly, it's a great day. It's not just couples being all mushy gushy bleh, bleh, bleh. It's really just about love. It doesn't matter if a little 8 yr old gave me a Valentine, it still brightened my day. My sisters (yes, I have two, Madison, and then Justine, a newly adopted sibling of mine) and I went to Build-a-Bear and made each other bears, and it was a ton of fun. My mom had Gigi's cupcakes delivered to our front door by the Florence Freedom mascot, and it was the sweetest thing in the world. I had a fabulous Valentine's Day. So for all of you out there who moped your way through today, stop making yourself miserable, and open up your eyes to the other forms of love all around you! Love isn't just from relationships, but from friends and family too!

This about sums up my Valentine's Day, luvvvvvvvvvvved it. 

My Vow to Stop Being So Lazy

We live in a generation very, VERY different from our parents', and it's fairly obvious most of the significant changes come from rapid technological advances. Yes, this has benefited society in countless ways, from new medical treatments to easier communication across the board, but with all of the technological advances comes a lot of laziness. It starts small. Instead of walking up to the front door and ringing the door bell to pick someone up, we sit in our cars and send a simple "Here" text message. Some of us can start our cars from the warm indoors on a cold winter morning by the press of a button (I for one, definitely do not have this luxury). But all these little things add up to a lot of laziness, and then we become comfortable being lazy. SO many teenagers can sit down in front of the TV or computer screen and literally watch 10 hours of Netflix. I'm guilty. You're probably guilty. And a lazy day like this is okay every ONCE in a while, but honestly, being this lazy scares the poop out of me. When you put this life into perspective, there are so many things to try, do, see, and learn, and we will never have enough time. But we do have some time here on Earth, so why are we not doing everything we can to make the most out of it? I don't want to waste 10 hours in front of a projected image. I want to spend 10 hours doing something I have never done before. I want to stop being so lazy, and actually get out and see what else the world has to offer other than 6 seasons, 120 hours, 5 days of Gossip Girl. So here is my vow to STOP being so lazy, and START exploring much much more. It's easier said than done, but I'm ready. You should be too.

Randomness because that's what I do

1. I have been wanting to get a tattoo for a while now, and I think I'm finally going to get it in the near future! Yay! Also, I can't stand when people say "That tattoo has no meaning" or "He/she only got that tattoo because it's 'hipster'" Like no. If someone is getting a tattoo (aka placing something on themselves for the rest of their life) it has meaning. They might not give you a reason, but to them, there's a reason. So stop being a little poo head, and let them be.

2. I've been asked a lot lately why I write a blog, so I figured I'd remind my readers and myself of the answer. I write a blog for a few main reasons.

1. I really enjoy writing. Always have, always will. I've just gone from writing about cute little stories I made up when I was about 12 years old to writing about real things I see happening around me, and hopefully one day I'll be published for something whatever it may be - book, article, I don't care. 
2. I think blogging is a great way for me to connect with those who I don't get to see very often, and let them know of some things going on in my life. I've been told a few times by people that I don't see much that they really like reading my blog because they feel it helps keep us close even if we're not together nearly as much as in the past. (Shout out to my girl McKenzie)
3. Finally, I blog to keep a record of some of the most unique years of my life - college. I love to look back on memories, especially through pictures, but I also think this blog is a great way to do just that.

Okay now that I've sufficiently expressed my love for blogging, I'm out! It's been real, see you lovely readers next week! Maybe! You never know with me. 

Stay classy,

Megan LouAnn :)

Slim Shadyyy - a guide to DTR

DTR

For those of you lameos out there who don't watch MTV's Awkward (watch it, people.), DTR stands for "Define the Relationship". Since Valentine's Day is coming up in a week, I figured it would be a good idea for me to help some of you DTR if you are caught in the limbo of not knowing whether or not to get your boo thang a gift or not. Those of you who know me might be thinking to themselves "who is she to be giving relationship advice?!" because yeah, well I've been single for close to 2 years now. Ouch. But that doesn't mean I haven't been through countless trial and error processes of everything leading up to an actual relationship. So yes, I'm drawing from my own personal experiences, my friend's personal experiences, and summarizing it into a few generic situations you could find yourself in whether you're in a relationship or in that unknown phase where you just don't know what the heck is going on. Phew. Here goes nothing.

1. The Repeat Offender

Alright, this sucker just keeps popping up in the confusion of "should we try it AGAIN?!" Is it worth it? Why hasn't it ever worked out in the past? This could be the ex you just can't let go of, or maybe just someone that you've always had something special with but haven't acted upon it. They're the one who you finally let go and then a simple text saying, "Hey I miss you, let's hang out!" draws you right back into the mess of things. I know you've all had something like this, and I think this is one of the most confusing situations to DTR. Obviously, there has been reasons why it never worked out in the past, but that can just be trivial things such as timing. You've also got something that makes you hold on. So what do you do? My best advice: decide to dive right in and REALLY try to see where things could go, or let it go. Don't let it be an in between situation any longer. Tell yourselves, yes, let's go on a few dates and decide if it's going to work once and for all, OR next time you get that "I miss you" text, tell yourself you don't want to go down that road again. It's easier said than done I KNOW. But if you're ever going to get past it, you've got to picture this guy/girl with a "yes" and "no" box next to them, and then check one. There are no more "maybes".  

2. BFF or BF

As far as identifying this relationship, I think it's pretty self explanatory. You are really good friends -REALLY good friends, but there's also that chemistry between the two of you, and you don't want to ignore it anymore. This is one that I'm really drawing from personal experience, and one that I'm not very happy with the outcome. Everyone always says that the best relationships come from being friends first which I'm going to necessarily disagree with. And I also think if it's really bugging you to find out if you could be something more than just friends then by all means go for it. You'll never know if you never try. However, make sure going into it, you're both on the same page as to what would happen if it ended up not working out, especially if you value your friendship a lot. To go from talking to someone almost all day every day, to walking past them without even acknowledging each other, sucks. Period. You've really got to make a promise to each other that you're willing to get past the hurt feelings or awkwardness in order to be friends again because no valuable friendship is worth losing over a failed relationship. End of story.

3. The Next Morning

Okay, what in the world do I mean by "The Next Morning"? This is the guy you made out with at a party, possibly intoxicated, and you're left wondering the next day if it could be anything more than that: a drunk hookup. Honestly, nine times out of ten, the answer is going to be no. First, you might not even really know anything about him/her, especially important details like their oh I don't know... name? number? But okay, let's say you do know their name, and they saved their number in your phone. Now comes the actual deciphering to decide if they were really into you or not. First, you have to ask yourself if they actually held conversations with you. Did they show an interest in actually getting to know you or were they more interested in the obvious? How drunk were the both of you? Alcohol has a funny way of making you do things contrary to your "norm". Unless he/she really went out of their way to talk to you for a while and wasn't really drunk, I'd just let it go. Sure, you had fun with them, but as far as turning into a possible relationship, the chances are slim shadyyy. On the contrary, if you really do want to see if they have an interest in something more, wait a day or two, text them, and find out, but just be aware that they might just reject the idea all together. It's cool, it happens, and maybe you'll be the 1/10 that starts into something more. 

That's alllllll folks. Have fun DTRing. It really isn't fun when you think about it, but after you DTR, you'll feel a LOT better about things. As for me, I'll go ahead and DTR my relationship with food. I think he might propose soon.... :D 

Until next time..

Stay classy,

Megan LouAnn

Being Lost 100% of the Time and Why It Rocks

Why my "Second" Job is my Favorite Job

I know in past posts I have talked about my job as a receptionist in a nursing home which I absolutely love, but nothing compares to my "second" job I have as a nanny of three, crazy, spontaneous little girls.  The oldest girl is 5, middle is 3, and youngest is 1. Talk about a handful. I nanny these girls once a week for 4 hours, and let me tell you, most often it is the 4 most exhausting hours of the week, but  I wouldn't change a thing. These girls make me appreciate life more and help me to look forward to my future. For those 4 hours, I get to see the world through the imaginative minds of toddlers, and trust me, it's a beautiful world. They never fail to melt my heart even through their outrageous meltdowns. The ups and downs is a true testimony to what life with kids is like. I'm learning so much from these girls, and it really does make me excited to raise kids of my own one day (way in the future of course ;)). Last week while I was watching the girls, the two oldest girls were bickering over something very trivial. The younger of the two made the oldest mad, but she didn't really know why. I brought her to the side and asked her to go give the oldest a big hug and kiss and say she was sorry, but I made sure she knew she didn't do anything wrong. She replied, "I don't like to give hugs, but I guess I'll do it!" Later that day, she gave me a HUGE hug! I immediately said, "Hey I thought you didn't like to give hugs!" and she replied, "But I love to give YOU hugs!" Heart. Melted. Literally. My heart melted. It made my whole week, and I can't help but smile each time I tell someone. Moral of the story: being a mom is going to be one of the most rewarding (but incredibly difficult) experiences, BUT I'm more than happy waiting for that time to come. For now, I'm good with my very part time job of four hours a week. I'll have plenty of time to tackle the full-time gig a little later in life. 

"Mom, I have absolutely nothing in my life figured out, and I absolutely hate it." 

"That's college."

Ok, so basically, I'm the world's most indecisive person. I hate making even the smallest decisions, and as soon as I make a decision, I almost always immediately regret it. It's a major problem, but hey - I'm working on it. Because of my chronic indecisiveness, I constantly feel like I don't have a plan. Because I can't settle on a plan. But according to my amazing mother, not having a plan is what college is all about. Like most things, she's right. If you have a plan going into college and graduate following that same plan, I applaud you. But that's most likely not going to happen. It's certainly not happening for me. I'm not just talking about picking a major/career choice. I'm talking about life in general (aren't I always?!) Some people have a plan to go into college and meet the love of their life. How am I doing on that plan? HA. End of story. Some people plan to go to college and get super involved and active in the campus life, but it's easier said than done. People "plan" for things to happen all the time, but I've come to accept that planning only leads to disappointments, and I'd be better off letting nature run its course because I'm confident that God will lead me where I need to be... eventually. He will lead me to the correct career path, friends, hubby, all of the above, but all of that takes time. So college is a journey all about taking that time, trying new things, and being absolutely lost 100% of the time. And it's pretty damn fun being lost if I do say so myself.

To end this post, I want to leave you with a picture of my super hott bff who probably understands me the most out of ANYone. We just... get each other. Love you Eeeeeee.

Stay classy loves,

Megan LouAnn :D (that's the face I'm making up there ^)

Beds, B*tches, and Bearcats

The Sad Moment When...

I'm starting to get too old for sleepovers. Not for the concept of them, but for the actual sleeping over part. I will gladly hang out, watch a bunch of movies, eat a bunch of food, and share a bunch of secrets any night of the week, BUT I want to sleep in my own bed SO bad these days. I will leave at 3am right when I'm falling asleep at someone's house just to drive home and sleep in my comfy bed. I never used to be like this, and I don't know if it's because I'm growing up or because I've never really had the opportunity to do that sort of thing until recently. I think it's because I have a bond with my bed that just can't be broken. Or because I really am getting too old. Ughhh.

I'm Not a Chinese B*tch

Well week one of my second semester of freshman year is checked off the list. And if the rest of the semester will follow the same patterns of this week, then I'd say I'm in for a treat. Day one: wake up nice and early to look somewhat less like a troll (as that is my normal appearance at 9AM), and I arrive to my Spanish class with a solid 10 minutes to spare. I double checked the room number because no one was in there yet, but I had the right room, and I wasn't too apprehensive as there was supposed to be only 7 students in the class, and I was a little early. However, as time passed on, I was starting to have my doubts. 5 minutes until class was supposed to start and not a soul in sight. I checked the NKU app on my phone, Blackboard, and the hard copy of my syllabus I had and they all said 403. I was sitting in 403. Then I started to think maybe I was in the wrong building because that's something I would do, but no, I was definitely in the right building, Landrum. As I almost got up to start wandering around aimlessly, a girl rushed in the room and sat down. It was 8:59 and there were 2 of us. We sat their for a minute or 2 until I finally said, "Do you think she switched rooms?" We both checked our e-mails, but saw nothing. We sat there until 9:10, then I sent my professor an e-mail asking if we were in the wrong room. I gathered my things because there was no point in sitting in an empty room. As I walked out the door, I noticed a hot-pink piece of paper right outside saying in big bold black letters "PROFESSOR ENCARNACION'S SPANISH 102 CLASS IS CANCELED FOR MONDAY, JANUARY 13TH." Great. Now my Spanish professor is going to think I'm an idiot. Thankfully I had loads of extra time to find my next class because I seriously couldn't find it. As I walked into Griffin Hall all the classrooms were in the 200s symbolizing I was on the 2nd floor. I was highly confused because I didn't walk up any stairs. How did I get to the 2nd floor? Turns out the first floor is the "basement" level. Wow. My brain was not prepared for my first day back. Orrrrrrrr my second. First class on Tuesday is Sociology, so I find myself back in Landrum. I find my room and rejoice because there are tons of students. I sit down and take out my books, but as I look around, all the other students' books look different. I look up at the board and see Anthropology 301. Awesome. Time for the walk of shame. I pack up my things and sheepishly exit the room as fast as possible. I was in room 201 when I needed 205. Clearly, Landrum is not my forte. I sit down in my actual sociology course with a minute to spare. Good thing I wasn't late because holy crap, my professor is a tiny little Chinese woman, but she is the biggest firecracker ever, and called out quite a few students for being even a minute late. She told us a story about how a student called her a Chinese bitch, and I'm sorry but old Chinese women should not say the word bitch. It just doesn't match. But she had the whole class laughing the entire time. I'm really looking forward to her class. Good thing I actually found it. As for the rest of the week, my brain started to function at basic levels again, and I was able to find the rest of my classes with ease. Either way, I know it's going to be an interesting semester, and I look forward to making many many more stupid mistakes.

Ew that was long, sorry.

A Picture's Worth a Thousand Words

Mother-daughter bonding. Because only cool people party with their momma-bears.

  Jumanji...... nuff said. Oh hey Caitlyn.

Because I felt like becoming a Bearcat for a night... It's going down I'm yelling Timber.

I was supposed to be teaching her Chemistry so naturally we take selfies. Ugly, ugly selfies.

ADIOS! (2 classes of Spanish, and I'm already confused on my first language ;))

Stay classy,
Megan LouAnn

Keeping Your Chin Held High and Your Standards Higher

This week's blog post is going to be a little different. Instead of having 3-4 separate sections, I'm focusing on just one topic. Why? One reason is because I had a later post last week, and therefore, I haven't formulated enough ideas yet. And because I think this post is pretty important, at least to me. So... here it goes.

Keeping Your Chin Held High and Your Standards Higher

Alright, so what am I talking about? I'm talking about self-worth and relationships. I think both are correlated with each other because your self-worth can either make or break your relationships. Friendships, romantic relationships, relationships with your parents, ALL OF ZEEEE RELATIONSHIPS. Any healthy relationship comes from two people who are first happy with themselves, and then happy with each other. If one person is unhappy with themselves, the whole thing is thrown off balance. If you want good relationships with people, you've got to have a fantastic relationship with yourself. That sounds weird, but how do you know you're in good standings with yourself? You can look yourself in the mirror and honestly, confidently say, "I am proud of who I am." Sure, you'll have flaws, probably a lot of flaws, but it's taking that extra step, and looking past the flaws. Being proud that you have flaws because they're YOUR flaws. Unfortunately, there are way too many people out there who can't confidently say they're proud of themselves. It's not easy, and it might take some practice, but everyone has the capability of being proud of themselves. It's one thing you can control. You can't control if your coach, teacher, parent, or friend is proud of you, but you can control your own self worth. Once you are proud of you, others will be too. You'll be more confident, and therefore, you'll have better relationships. So now you've got your head held nice and high... are you still ready to have good relationships? Maybe... but also maybe not.

Just because you are self confident, doesn't mean you can jump right into a relationship and everything will be okay. Soooo now what am I talking about? Standards. Face it, there really are a lot of pains in the ass out there: male and female. And while at first, you might be elated with this person, you might not be considering what you really deserve. Sometimes, no matter how bad you want them to be, people aren't meant to be in your life. Know and trust yourself well enough to be able to make good judgments on who you do and do not need. This goes for boyfriends, girlfriends, and friends in general. You can love yourself and still end up loving someone who doesn't love you. So keep your standards high because you don't want to settle for ANYTHING less than amazing. 

Gosh this is so preachy, but it's something I see people messing up every single day. And it's important I remind myself to keep my own chin up and my own standards nice and high. Because both have been down before, and it's not pretty. Relationships are going to come and go, so being happy with yourself is the most important thing you can work on. Everything else will fall into place. Sigh, I'm done preaching for today. Here's a song by Christina Perri called Human. I love it, and it's a pretty good theme song for this post. Remember we are all human, have flaws, but we deserve to be HAPPY :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gugUpIOdSro

Stay Classy,

Megan LouAnn

Insert Clever Title Because I'm Too Tired to Think

To Old Memories and New Beginnings

I'm going to keep this section brief because I feel like people get sick of hearing about "New Year" stuff by about January 2nd. At least I do. That being said, I realize it is January 5th, but I can't ignore the absolutely amazing year that just passed. 2013 was hands down the best year of my life with so many new adventures, beginnings, and friends. It was the second half of my senior year in high school (including graduation of course) and the start of my first semester of college. These two huge events combined into one year automatically make it a great one, however, it's only a small part of what made this year so memorable. I shared countless memories with friends that I will never ever forget. I made new friendships that I can't wait to develop even further. And finally, I really strengthened my faith in 2013. Was 2013 a "perfect" year? No way, far from it. There were heartbreaks, failures, distanced friendships, and other low points, but all the positive memories completely outshine the bad, and I know I will always hold the year 2013 in a special place in my heart. As for 2014, I have my hopes set just as high for another great year. It's a year to build upon new friendships, reunite with old friends, and keep trucking along on this crazy journey I like to call college!

Eyebrows

Alright, so this might be weird, but I have an obsession with watching makeup tutorials on YouTube. Not because I necessarily use them, but I find it incredibly fascinating to see how different girls can make themselves look. Yes, I wear makeup, quite often too, but at least I'm recognizable without it. Some of these Youtubers can practically disguise themselves. They're THAT good. But while watching quite a few of these little tutorials, I was struck by something that kind of just bewilders me. All of these makeup gurus (and honestly some everyday girls in general) are obsessed with like "doing their eyebrows". It's just weird to me to put make up on your eyebrows. I understand getting them waxed and what not, but coloring them in and using "eyebrow gel" just seems odd to me. This is a fairly recent trend, and I know it's legit because I've seen the eyebrow kits in Ulta, but I just find it a little weird. They're just eyebrows. Maybe I find it so weird since my eyebrows are already pretty dark in general, I don't know. It's just weird. End rant.

Tampa Bayyyyay

Woo! Over the Christmas holiday my family took a week long vacation to Tampa, FL. After waiting in the Cincy airport for about 6 1/2 hours longer than intended, we were finally on our way. I'll tell you what, laying out by the pool is really not my favorite past time, but soaking up the sun in the end of December was seriously my own little slice of heaven. I just wanted to bottle up the sun and the heat and take it with me back to KY. We were blessed with beautiful weather pretty much for our entire trip. We spent Christmas Day at Busch Gardens, and we got to watch gorillas open up their Christmas presents - yeah, it was pretty freaking awesome. Vacations for my family always seem to go wrong, but this one was one for the books. It was so enjoyable, and I'd give anything to go back for another week. (Although okay honestly I was sick of constantly being with my family after about day 5, but I'd do it again in a heart beat) All in all, it was one of my favorite Christmas presents I had ever received, and I hope to do a vacation similar to it again soon!

Here's a picture of my momma and I on Clearwater Beach which was GORGEOUS.

And here's one of Mady and I on Christmas Eve!

Just a Few Tid Bits

1. I realized that I rarely speak unless spoken to. Unless you're one of my best friends then I probably won't shut up. But, if I'm simply like a crowd or with people I don't know very well, I certainly won't be the one to start the conversation. Once someone talks to me, then I'm friendly and talkative(ish), but if they don't talk to me, I won't talk to them. Like ever.

2. The season premier of The Bachelor starts tonight, and holy heck I can't contain my excitement fdsnfjakslf. fdsjafhsd. HFJSFUEFD. 

3. Netflix is quite possibly the best and worst thing I have purchased.

4. Now I'm literally obsessed with New Girl. Obsessed. 

5. I'm a complete nerd, and I'm actually looking forward to this semester to start. (Nerd alerttttt)

6. Now I want to watch Pitch Perfect - classic.

7. Wow these tid bits are just a random baby vomit of my thoughts swirling around in my awesome brain. So sorry. 

8. I still get on Facebook sometimes... and read a lot of drama from ratchet people that have somehow appeared on my friends list. Eeeek, I've got to clear that thing out.

9. I really do want to say thank you to whoever enjoys reading my posts. Sorry this one was kind of lameeee, at least I feel it was. But one of the main reasons I have a blog is to document my life for myself, so I can look back 5 years from now and remember what in the heck was going through my head as my silly 18 year old self. But I also want to share it with you all as well, so bleh. Thanks, dudes. 

10. I can't think of anything else currently, but I had to make a 10th tid bit, or else it would really bother me. 

Stay Classy,

Megan LouAnn  

Celebrating with the Birthday Boy

Making Mistakes

Go ahead and read the title of my blog. Read it again. Notice anything wrong? Surprise! "Unperfect" is actually not even a word. Yikes... I think I was going for "Imperfect" BUT here's where I have struck gold: my blog title is Perfectly Unperfect, and while yes, I messed up by using a nonexistent word... it just further proves my point in that - I'm NOT perfect. I make mistakes. We all do. Mistakes are what make us who we are, and some mistakes turn out to be amazing in their own ways. For example, here are 5 awesome accidental discoveries:

1. Penicillin
2. Microwaves (WHAT WOULD LIFE BE WITHOUT THEM!?)
3. Velcro 
4. Coca-cola 
5. aaaaand last but not least - Viagra? haha

So point is, forgive yourself when you make mistakes because we all do it, it's inevitable, and it's what makes you, youuuuuuuuuuuuu.

Ah crap, that just got cheesy but.... cheesy is my middle name. OK no it's LouAnn, but you get the point.

Holidays

Christmas is right around the corner, and I am super stoked! However, it turns out that the holidays aren't exactly the same when you go to college for some people. A lot of parents pull the "you're an adult now you don't get any more presents this year" which is a valid point, HOWEVER, us college students are broke, stressed, and sometimes want to feel like kids again, so I see no harm in still giving college kids gifts at Christmas. Maybe just one or two meaningful things that we could really use! After college, well then, yes I assume you've officially entered adult hood, but then you can participate in gift exchanges and other fun ways to celebrate the season. However, presents or no presents it's important to remember the real occasion worth celebrating: Jesus' birthday. During Advent, we are called to really take the time to strengthen our relationship with God and iron out any kinks, but I think this time is more difficult than any other time to do that because of the millions of added distractions. Finals, Christmas parties, catching up with friends, working extra holiday hours, etc. really take up a lot of time, and it seems nearly impossible to maintain our relationship with God, let alone build upon it. However, it is not impossible if you look for God in everything surrounding you. Christmas is the season for hustle and bustle, but it is also the season of giving. If you keep an eye out, you will see Christ working just as hard as you are in making this a great holiday season. So, celebrate with family and friends, but don't forget to celebrate with the birthday boy! After all, he is your very best friend! 

Learning to Be Happily Single

Some of you might completely disregard this because well, you're not single, so this section of this week's blog post is dedicated to my fellow single readers! Speaking of the holiday season, now more than ever, it's annoying to be single. There are so many fun "couple" things to do this time of year: ice skating, Festival of Lights, Christmas tree decorating, and shopping, etc., so it's hard to truly feel happy being single right now when it feels like couples may be taking over the earth (I swear they're EVERYWHERE). But I think that being single is really such a great treasure that everyone, including myself, takes for granite sometimes. Being single, you have no one else to define you. You are left to define yourself, and it is in the single life when you can really discover who you are. Too many people who are in relationships find themselves "stuck" more or less without room to grow as an individual. (not saying all relationships are like this but quite a few). Another great thing about being single is you don't have to spend the extra money buying your significant other a gift. Use the money you would be spending, and buy yourself a little something nice because hello, you're awesome, and you deserve it. If you can learn to be completely happy single, you will become the best version of yourself - not reliant on anyone else to be happy, more in control of your emotions, and doing things for yourself, no one else. Again, there are too many couples out there who place almost their entire happiness in a single person, so unfortunately when that source is taken away, they feel like they have nothing. Be proud to be single, and focus on making yourself happy because when you are your happiest single self, you will find the right guy or girl who you won't NEED to rely on. Being independent is so attractive because you have your own life together and clearly are doing just fine. At that point, a relationship can be a healthy bonus to your life as opposed to every source of happiness. WERK IT SINGLES WERK IT. 

Here's a fun picture sent from my favorite single friend, Elizabeth :)

That's all I have for this post, but I wish all of my readers a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! I'll be in Florida all next week (don't be too jealous :) ), so I won't be posting for a little while. Until next time....

Stay Classy,
Megan LouAnn

FINAL-ly I'm Back

 Long Time No Blog

Hello readers! It's been way too long since I've been able to make a post. Life has been crazy lately, but that's life! I believe it's been two or three weeks due to such events like Thanksgiving Break, snow storms, and the worst of all, FINALS. So quick litle updates on that: Thanksgiving was wonderfully spent with my wonderful family, and my grandma brought out my mother's yearbook from the 7th grade - honestly funniest thing I've ever seen. My mom kept quoting, "I'm so confused. This book looks ancient!" WELL, mother dearest, hate to break the new to you but...... :) Mamaw also found my mom's old Girl Scout sash and code book. Too funny. And then came the real fun: Black Friday shopping! We always love to get in the hustle and bustle of all the crazy shoppers even if we aren't shopping for anything in particular ourselves. All in all, Thanksgiving was wonderfully spent with amazing family, and I truly am so SO blessed and thankful to have them in my life.

Hard Work Pays Off

With my very first semester of college under my belt as of TODAY - yay!, I have every reason to celebrate! I have had so much success in all of my classes, and the academic transition from high school to college was as smooth as it could get, and I have a few people to thank for that. Most importantly, I need to thank my absolutely amazing high school teachers for beyond preparing me for succes. I appreciated them in high school, but certainly not to the extent that I appreciate them now. They pushed me to be the best student I can be, and it's because of them that I was able to stay on top of everything in college. I would not be NEAR the quality student I am today if it weren't for them, and I almost want to write each and every one of them a thank you letter! BUT I think a simple visit back to say thanks would be just as effective, so I plan to do that tomorrow actually! To my readers who are still in high school: when you find yourself moaning and groaning about teachers assigning too much homework or multiple tests in one day, trust me you'll thank them later because news flash: professors in college aren't going to reschedule their exam because you have your big speech that day! All in all, I am so so thankful for the education I have been offered, and maybe someday, I will be the teacher pushing my own students to be their best, so they too, can succeed in college.

Boys are the most annoying creatures on the face of the earth.

Today after my last final exam, I had lunch with two good friends of mine, Caitlyn and Connor. To give a little background, Caitlyn, like me, has been single for a little while now, and Connor has been in a relationship for over a year - go him! However, Cait and I were discussing our many MANY boy problems because - hello - there are always boy problems... Here's a list of my favorite quotes from the discussion:

1. "You all are falling for all the boys. Men can start real relationships." -Connor
2. "I'm never getting married. Not kidding. I'm not gonna EVER get married." -Megan "You're so full of shit." -Connor "Haha well yeah..." -Megan
3. "I don't even want a pefect guy. Like I want him to be mean to me every once in awhile, just not screw me over." -Caitlyn "Yeah! Like call me a bitch or something. Keep it interesting!" -Megan
4. "I saw something the other day that said girls fall for the douchebags when they have perfectly good guys willing to date them, but they will forever be 'just friends'." -Connor "Yeah that's me. It's annoying. I can't even stop myself from doing it..." -Megan "My life." -Cait
5. "I've come to the conlusion that guys are born assholes, you've just got to pick one and put up with him forever." -Megan
6. "Oh my gosh that baby is toooo cute! Ugh. I'm never gonna get a baby because I'm never getting married. What is life." -Megan
7. "Okay, it is illegal to tell a girl you like her, make out with her, and then act like NOTHING happened. Freaking illegal." -Megan

And that about sums up our lunch conversation. It was mostly Cait and I complaining and Connor trying to stick up for his own breed, but let's face it: boys are annoying. Period. And just to add a little bit of my thoughts on the whole friend zone situation...

Dear guys would felt that they have been friend zoned,

You are probably a really REALLY nice guy. And this girl you've been friend zoned by recognizes that. She loves you for that, and yes, you can say that you would treat her nice and give her the world and never hurt her BUT she still might not want to go there with you. This has nothing to do with how attractive you are or not. You can be an attractive, smart, loving, caring, gentlemen and STILL get friend zoned. If a girl doesn't see you as a potential boyfriend because you are too good of friends, then you are too good of friends. The end. They can't help it, and maybe someday they'll have a change of heart, but if she saw you as a boyfriend, she would probably pursue it because you're probably a really good guy. Trust me, us girls will find ourselves thinking: "Why do I fall for guys who aren't treating me half as good as (insert you name here) would treat a girl?" Here's the answer: we don't know, and I hope it's something you grow out of someday because I'm tired of it, you're tired of it, everyone's tired of it, but it's not like we do it on purpose. We are genetically wired that way, and that's about all I have on that.

This is the conclusion for this post, and I promise I will try my hardest to not abandon you all for a random 2 weeks again with fair warning. To all of my friends who are finished with finals - congrats we made it! And to all of my friends who are still finishing finals - you are SO close, keep pushing through! And to all the guys out there who think it's fun to play with a girl's heart - newsflash: it's illegal. I just decided.

Stay classy,
Megan LouAnn

Eighty-One

If this doesn't make you smile, I don't know what will...

I recently came across an article on NBC News about America's longest-married couple. Their 81st wedding anniversary is coming up. EIGHTY FIRST ANNIVERSARY. Unfortunately, that's longer than most of us will live. However, John, 102, and his wife Ann, 98, have well surpassed the life expectancy for both men and women, and they have lived almost their entire lives together. So what's their story exactly? Ann was actually set to marry a much older man whom her father had chosen, but to her father's suprise, she took off with John, and they eloped. 81 years later, here they are, still unconditionally in love with one another. I'm crying it's too cute. It's amazing to think of everything this couple has witnessed and been through. In an interview with NBC, John said, "We have watched the world change together." In response to how they've managed to stay together so long? Listen up boys! He says, "The key is to always agree with your wife." Wow. That's the best relationship advice I've heard in a long time. I think the best part of this love story is that they both appear to have many years ahead of them.

Now tell me this isn't the cutest couple you've ever seen?!

Ugh. So precious right?? I swear, I don't care how in love I am with someone... 81 years is a LONG time. I really do wish them the best and many more anniversarys to come!

Be spontaneous.

I guess this ties in with the whole eloping ordeal between John and Ann: spontaneity. I swear the best things are the things that just happen out of the blue. No planning. Nothing. They just.... happen. This goes for almost anything. Be spontaneous with your friends. Be spontaneous with your relationships. Be spontaneous with yourself. Now, DON'T go crazy with it, but a little spontaneity never killed anybody. Some of my most memorable nights spent with friends came out of completely random ideas. Unfortunately, I feel the best time to be spontaneous is the summer because there is less responsibilties, less everything to worry about. BUT it's always good to sneak in a little bit during the holiday season. Call up a friend and get hot chocolate and drive around listening to Christmas music and looking at Christmas lights. Or don't. Just, be spontaneous.


Stay classy,
Megan LouAnn

50 Shades of Red

Embracing Embarrassment

*Sigh* Let's face it: we all do embarrassing things on a daily basis, and if you're thinking to youself, 'Oh no I never do embarrassing things...', then I'm embarrassed for you because it's embarrassing that you can't admit that you do embarrassing things because we are all embarrassing human beings. Ugh. So embarrassing. I really tend to do embarrassing things on a daily basis solely because I'm slowly going deaf - those of you who know my mom obviously know this runs in the family. For example, last night at work a man came in and I asked how his day was going. He replied, "It's been alright, at least the weather got past 50." Now, for whatever reason my ears interpreted this along the lines of, "It's been alright, today I made it past 50." So, polietly I say, "Awh, happy birthday! Everyone's got to turn 50 sometime!" The man was so confused and he restated, "No, I'm happy the WEATHER got past 50 degrees." Yeah, safe to say my face turned 50 shades of red, but hey! I laughed it off and explained I'm clearly hard of hearing, and that I, too, was pleased with the slightly warmer weather. Ugh. After he left I was cursing at myself, praying that the man had been at least 50, so he wouldn't be offended at my assuming that he already was... Despite the extreme awkwardness however, I was able to shake it off and laugh it out. So that's a recent embarrassing tale. Now, for a flashback about one of my favorite embarrassing moments.

To this day, I simply can't help but laugh when telling this story to anyone, and it's been over five years since the incident. It was in the 6th grade (btw one of the lowpoints of Megan's life in which she was known as a "prep", ew - and I have no idea why I wrote that in third person but whatevs), and we were practicing our little dance routine for grandparent's day. We were dancing to the Monster Mash, and one of the teacher's signaled me to move over to the left a little bit. I apparently was having a dyslexic moment of some sort and moved to the right on accident only to find that I had reached the end of the stage and proceeded to face plant to the ground. I didn't actually hit my face (thank g, it was my money maker back then lol juss kitten), but I landed straight on my hip, and honestly, it really freaking hurt. Pretty sure everyone in the entire gym stopped what they were doing and just stared at me as I lay there wondering why the world hated me. Ok, no, it wasn't that dramatic, but being a pre-teen girl, it sure felt like it was. Three or four teachers came rushing over asking if I was okay, and I managed to get out a weak, "I'm fine," as I was attempting to hold back the tears. Here's one positive: they let me go to the nurse's office and lay down for a while and wait for my mom to bring me some Advil because back then it was like illegal for the nurses to give out any medications without a parent/guardian being present. I think that's annoying, and at least now you can get permission over the phone. That's beside the point. Point is: it was beyond embarrassing back then, but I think it's hilarious now which just goes to show that don't sweat the crazy things that happen because more than likely in a day, week, month, it will turn in to a great story to tell. I didn't think it was too funny until the black and blue bruise that was the size of a large melon finally faded away. Oh, 6th grade... LOL - that is all.

A Few Simple Things That I Absolutely LOVE

1. People who call you by name

Ok, this might sound weird, but I'm referring to two things here. 1. I love when a professor calls me by my name. It's refreshing to know that they know who I am and can put a face to a name, and that is so so important in college. In a class of over 100, if a professor knows your name, I consider that a huge accomplishment. It's not about being a "teacher's pet" in college. It's about making connections with potential mentors in your field of study who can seriously help you out along the way. So when a professor calls me by name, it may be simple, but I LOVE it. 2. I love when someone you don't even think knows you exist calls you by name. It's just like a slight reminder that people notice you even when you don't think they do. This can be good or bad I guess, but either way, I just really love it.

2. When my favorite song comes on the radio

I'm not just talking like the latest hit favorite song. I'm talking like the this was my favorite song 3 years ago. It's like I instantly feel so happy no matter what mood I'm in. Why? I have no idea, but it's something that I love, and it always makes my day a little bit better. What has been my most recent "OMG I used to love this song!!" moment? "Sugar, We're Going Down" by Fall Out Boy. (Insert emoji with the 2 hearts as eyes because it's like love at first sight - or sound rather). Whenever this awesome occurance happens, no matter where I'm at or who I'm with, the volume goes up and the lip synching begins.


Okay, that's all I have for this week, I know it wasn't much, but I wanted to get something out there before I get ready to travel this weekend to see my lovely best friend, Elizabeth! I want to hear about some of your embarrassing stories, so feel free to comment them below! Remeber, embrace embarrassing!

Stay Classy,
Megan LouAnn :)

Follow Your Arrow

Make Lots of Noise, Kiss Lots of Boys

Some of you may or may not recognize this post's title as the title of Kacey Musgraves most recent hit, "Follow Your Arrow". I have lovedddd Kacey Musgraves ever since I heard her song "Merry Go 'Round". And okay in general, I just really love good country music, but Kacey brings her own style to her music. What I enjoy most about her songs is the words. As I was watching the CMA's (which were fabulous and Carrie Underwood is fabulous and Luke Bryan is fabulous ugh), I heard Kacey perform her song "Follow Your Arrow", and I immediately fell in love with the song solely due to the lyrics. SO. Go listen to her amazing song, but for the mean time, here are the lyrics:

If you save yourself for marriage
You're a bore
If you don't save yourself for marriage
You're a whore-able person
If you won't have a drink
Then you're a prude
But they'll call you a drunk
As soon as you down the first one

If you can't lose the weight
Then you're just fat
But if you lose too much
Then you're on crack
You're damned if you do
And you're damned if you don't
So you might as well just do
Whatever you want
So

Make lots of noise
Kiss lots of boys
Or kiss lots of girls
If that's something you're into
When the straight and narrow
Gets a little too straight
Roll up a joint, or don't
Just follow your arrow
Wherever it points, yeah
Follow your arrow
Wherever it points

If you don't go to church
You'll go to hell
If you're the first one
On the front row
You're self-righteous
Son of a-
Can't win for losing
You'll just disappoint 'em
Just 'cause you can't beat 'em
Don't mean you should join 'em

So make lots of noise
Kiss lots of boys
Or kiss lots of girls
If that's something you're into
When the straight and narrow
Gets a little too straight
Roll up a joint, or don't
Just follow your arrow
Wherever it points, yeah
Follow your arrow
Wherever it points

Say what you think
Love who you love
'Cause you just get
So many trips 'round the sun
Yeah, you only
Only live once

So make lots of noise
Kiss lots of boys
Or kiss lots of girls
If that's what you're into
When the straight and narrow
Gets a little too straight
Roll up a joint, I would
And follow your arrow
Wherever it points, yeah
Follow your arrow
Wherever it points



Okay, now tell me that isn't completely true of our society today?! Because it is. No matter what you do, someone isn't going to approve or like it. The BEST line is "you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't" because I honestly feel that's how our generation thinks. So what does Kacey say about all of this? DO WHAT YOU WANT WHO CARES YOU'RE NOT HERE FOR ANYONE BUT YOURSELF. And I couldn't agree more. Whenever I hear this song I find myself thinking, "PREACH." BY the way, I'm not like saying you should go out and get wasted and smoke a bunch of weed and have a bunch of sex. No. It's about doing what's BEST for you despite what anyone else tells you. You are the arrow: not your best friend, not your mom, not your boyfriend. YOU. Alright this is getting a little too preachy for me, but: go listen to Kacey's song and keep doing you girl (or boy - shout outs to all the boys reading?).

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5 Really Important Things Every Highschooler Should Know

Why am I writing this list? I've been through four years of highschool, and I am approaching the end of my first semester of college, and I feel like there are quite a few things I wish I realized when I was still in highschool. So here's my own little rendition of what you high school readers should realize while you're still in high school!

1. High school is a love-hate relationship.

Okay high school is really crazy; it can go from like 0-60 in .2 seconds. I have never been on more of a "roller coaster" in my entire life. One day could be great - the next, one of the worst days ever. But it's all positive in the long run because it foreshadows pretty much the rest of your life. You're going to have good days, months, years, and you're going to have bad days, months, years. High school can help prepare you for these ups and downs, and usually in high school it's over minute things, so you can learn how to deal with them in a positive way to help you with the toughys later in life. No matter what, I promise you're going to really appreciate the good and bad times you have in high school because they make you who you are... leading into my next point:

2. High school is full of changes.

First of all, physically, you're probably going to change a lot from freshman year to senior year (thank goodness, I know). The funny thing is, you don't realize it until you're a senior, and you find yourself wondering when in the world it happened. But you'll be pretty stoked it did. Another change: your friends. If you have the exact same friends your freshman year as you do you senior year... you must have some pretty tight friends. Sometimes, you'll have a few that stick with you from day one, but it's rare. And even with those few really good friends, you're probably going to gain and lose others all the time. It happens. The important thing is finding those few that really are good friends. They'll be the ones there when no one else is no matter what you did. Cherish them! Because the likely hood that all of your best friends will go to the same college is like .0001% chance. Trust me, you'll miss seeing them every. single. day. even if they annoyed the crap out of you sometimes. Your true friends will always be there in college and beyond, but you won't get to spend the pointless, small memories with them like you did when you went to the same school.

3. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

What in the world does this mean? I'm mostly talking to the seniors regarding choosing a college. I could have easily made this mistake and I'm SO SO happy I didn't. Well, I partially made this mistake I guess. As I ventured out touring colleges, it was like one after the other until I went to U of L. I fell in love, and every other tour after that I simply didn't care. I knew where I wanted to go and the search was over. Thankfully, I have very bright parents who coninvced me I needed to apply to more than one place just in case. I ended up applying to U of L, UK, NKU, EKU, and Bellarmine. Of all the colleges, U of L gave me the worst scholarship. I was c.r.u.s.h.e.d. And for quite a while I just disregarded the thought of college all together. I had no idea what I wanted to do. Well, I knew that I WANTED to go to Louisville, but given the circumstances, I knew deep down it just wasn't the right choice for me. So what DID I do? I chose to attend NKU and live at home, and here's the best part: make money while doing it. I'm by no means saying money should completely influence your decison, but seriously it should be a pretty big factor when making your decision. People pay off loans even when their own kids are going to college - ew. Do not do that to yourself. However, you can make your own decision, BUT be sure to: apply to multiple colleges of different variety, so you keep your options open. People change their minds all the time, and you don't want to be SOL come May - scholarship accepting time!

4. Don't wish away your sport's seasons no matter how burnt out you are.

I think it's inevitable to get a little burnt out of whatever sport or extra curricular activity you're doing especially by your senior year of high school, but here's what you have to realize: you've put in countless hours of your time all for this one sport or activity, and for the majority of you, it's going to be the last time you REALLY play. Of course, there's always going to be leagues and other ways you can continue playing without comitting to college programs, but I can tell you first hand it's not the same. You'll never get that team back, you'll never get that student section cheering for you back, you only have RIGHT NOW. So, don't wish it away, make the most of it. You'll be glad you did.

5. Despite the last 4 points seeming as if high school is the best time of your life - it's not.

Don't get me wrong - high school was ONE of the best times of my life, but it is NOT the best. College really is such a great experience already, and for me, it's just begun. For once, you really feel like you are in complete control of your life, and as scary as that is, it's so so exciting. You start to feel yourself thinking as a grown up, making better decisions overall, and working in school for YOU, not for your college application. It's hard to understand until you're there, but going to school isn't such a struggle when you realize you're begining to build the true foundation of your career. Now, this doesn't mean learning in high school is pointless AT ALL. I'm going to college to become a high school Biology teacher, so clearly I place great value in secondary education. If you work hard in highschool, you'll develop a work ethic that you'll take with you through college and onwards. College won't be such a hard transition either. Also, it's a good idea to start thinking about what you like and don't like in high school as far as courses go because it will really help you in choosing the proper major. For example, if you absolutely hated anatomy, my guess is you shouldn't be a nursing major. And here's my favorite part of college: the pointless, petty high school drama, just - disappears. It's AMAZING. You'll encounter so many types of people you never have before, and somehow you'll have an understanding for each and every one of them - it. rocks.

Here's the point: don't wish your high school career away even if you think it's awful right now. You'll miss it, BUT college is a million times better, and it's really something to look forward to and work hard for.

Phew. That was a lot. But I hope you high schoolers take it to heart because when I was in your position, people told me similar things, but I didn't let it register. LET THIS REGISTER. You'll thank me later!

Finally, I know I say this a lot, but I love to hear that people are actually reading. SO, if you enjoy reading please let me know, either by commenting below, emailing me @ perfectlyunperfectblog@gmail.com, or by just telling me if you ever see me out and about (that is if you actually know who I am because according to my STATS I have readers all the way from Australia -eeeeeek shout out to the Aussie's reading! :)) I really appreciate even the littlest comments. (shoutout to E for giving my blog a shoutout about me giving her a shoutout - uh that's a mouthful) Until next time........

Stay Classy,
Megan LouAnn :)

I Want Crazy

The Great Suprise!

Okay! Finally, I get to tell you all about the wonderful suprise I have been talking about in my recent posts. For the record, I am awful at keeping suprises or secrets. Even if it's about the smallest things, and this suprise I am about to tell you about is no small matter! I was proud of myself for keeping it a secret since JUNE. YES JUNE. Alright, time for the actual suprise!  Back in June, one of my best friends Elizabeth texted Caitlyn, another friend of mine, and me that Hunter Hayes was coming to Louisville in October for a concert. We are huge HH fans, and it we thought it would be so much fun to visit Elizabeth at U of L on top of it! So we decided to get tickets. But not only did we get tickets for us, we bought each of our little sisters tickets as well. Our little youngsters are all sophomores at the same high school, and they are, of course, best friends as well! It was going to be our early Christmas presents to them. Okay, now here's the really fun part: we didn't tell them about the concert WHATSOEVER until about ten minutes TEN MINUTES before we walked in the theater. They just thought we were having a cute little sister-bonding weekend. So, when we told them: THEY FREAKED OUT. It was priceless. Literally it was one of the best moments in my entire life seeing my sister genuinely SO suprised and overwhelmed with emotion. My sister had the "screaming-OMG-NO WAY-SHUT UP" reaction. Cait's sister teared up - it was precious, and E's sister was in complete shock. Like not kidding, we had to tell her over and over again and physically put the ticket in her hand for her to understand... it was great. My mom was there to record the whole thing, so we will never ever forget that moment. It was truly amazing. Of course the girls were posting pictures all over social media because they were too excited, and let's just say, us older girls had losts of requests for adoption from our little sister's friends. I think we all deserve Sister of the Year awards...

Here's a picture of my sister and I soon after the suprise was revealed! I think she was pretty stoked....

And here's one of the gorgeous, super talented Hunter Hayes!

Beautiful isn't he?? He was SO good live. Like so good he sounded better than he does on his CD. THAT GOOD. Okay, I'll stop bragging about it, but all in all, it was such a wonderful weekend, and I couldn't have spent it with ANYONE better than my best friends and our mini-me's. However, might I point out that each of the little sisters are taller than their older sister! Nonsense, right?! Ugh... Oh well, tall, short, love them all :)

Boys.

Okay, when I first started this blog, I told myself I was going to try my hardest to stay away from talking about boys, cause like ew?! BUT, I'm a girl, a lot of my readers are girls, and what do girls do A LOT? Talk about  boys. So.

Boy: wut.

That's the best definition I have for the opposite sex. That's about the only thing that comes to mind when defining such a strange species. (Ok they're the same species as us women, but no. They just... no) Here's the problem, although not necessarily a problem, that I am having with boys and relationships: I am perfectly, PERFECTLY happy single. Like this may be world shattering to some females out there, but I don't need a guy in my life to make me happy, and I enjoy the little awesome things about being single. For example, I can shave my legs when I want - yay! and I can pick up and drive to anywhere in KY to party with my friends without having any commitments to worry about back home. So really, this IS NOT a problem. At all. It just means that I'm not going to jump at every opportunity that comes my way. It means that the likely hood of me finding the right guy is much higher than it would be if I was "thirsty" if you will. Does being happy single mean I don't want a boyfriend? No. A boyfriend would be super awesome, but I don't NEED one whatsoever. Ya feel me? My mother tells me I'm being too picky, but I refute back by explaining that I'm not picky (okay maybe I'm a little picky), but I have a better idea of who I'm looking for, and I'm okay with the fact that I probably won't find him right away. Sigh. Independency, man. It's a struggle and a blessing all at the same time. SO that's all I have on boys for now. Sometimes I wonder if I'm the only girl out there feeling this way, but then I'm reassured by some good friends of mine that I'm not alone on this. Us independent women need to calm ourselves, and realize we are in the best position possible to find that great guy. He's out there... and until you find him, just keep doing you.

I was on Pinterest and found this picture, and I feel like it really is a great set of rules to live by if you are a young, strong late teen, early twenty something female.

I think I'll end this post on that note. Again I want to say thank you to anyone who is reading! Feel free to post any comments below or e-mail me @ perfectlyunperfectblog@gmail.com :) I love to hear what you think, and most of all I love to hear if people are simply reading!

Stay classy,
Megan LouAnn :)